Party Time

This year, like in previous ones, many of you are writing in to ask for guidance on what to wear to the approaching company’s night out, how to “do a more relaxed yet glam christmas day” and wether to spend on a new look for this year’s New-Year’s eve ball.

Considering that behind each such question there is a unique personal story, lifestyle, dressing style and budget, getting a ‘one fits all’ answer, will not be sufficient. Moreover it will be like opening a magazine and expecting to find your personal look there. These spaces are more tailored to advertising than to giving individuals a much needed personal indications and as most of you know, it is not my style. However, there are two points I am happy to highlight, and which after many years of coaching and styling have proven successful in offering a solid, foundational approach to getting the desired dressing result, regardless of the occasion.

The first one is to remember that the finished look has to reflect your own personal style and the overall statement you would like your image to send out. Secondly, remind yourself that not every occasion calls for a spectacular or new outfit, and you will be wise to find a few key pieces and accessories to creatively transform a look and create the desired - and perceived effortless - effect.

With the above in mind, here are a few key seasonal ideas to add sparkle to your outfit this season.

  • If you are stuck, black on black or a black suit is always a safe option.

  • Avoid novelty tops, jumpers and ties.

  • A soft gray, dove blue or black dressy shirt - keep the top two buttons open for a slick and confident look, teamed with black or gray slim trouser or jean for a relaxed yet stylish evening out.

  • A tux is a great option for a formal however, if it is a more relaxed party a looser style suit and no tie will fit better.

  • Brush up on dress codes and pay attention to the ‘company you keep’ in order to read the invitation correctly.

  • Sparkles, feathers and brocade in small measures can be great additions, if it fits with your personal style aesthetic.

  • A trendy waist-coat - as part of the suit or as a stand-alone or under your leather jacket - this accessory is back in fashion and it is a good way to add colour to your outfit and express a signature style, if it is yours!

Cooler Days

The feel of the current cooler season is that this season everything goes!

I always maintained that one’s choice to embrace a signature style, by creating collections around, and rewearing, favourite pieces - with attention to garment condition and fit of course - will without a doubt, enhance their confidence and overall positive state of mind.

Many times in practice I have seen that when one is ‘allowed’ to be fully themselves’ in what they wear, its like they gained extra physical inches to their posture. I am really happy to see that this is finally taking roots in the wider approach / minds of clothes makers and artists’s creations that people like to wear.

So when I write ‘everything goes’ you can interpret this to mean; follow your own personal style - be it relaxed, classic, grunge etc - but know how to adapt it when, and if necessary. Also, pay close attention to fabric condition and fit; even if a piece is meant to be oversized it still needs to follow certain proportions so make sure you understand what your own form requires before choosing and if you are not sure ask for advice.

Here are a few key add-ons you might like to consider in order to update a look for the coming, cooler months:

  • Layers - not new but still a strong look, as an example a hoodie under tailored blazer, its sleek yet fun.

  • All day tailored ensembles - loose or belted suiting, buttoned shirts, vests, evening jackets and yes, even ties.

  • White shirt - another all time favourite; invest in a quality, preferably two and with distinctive cut/design

  • Something red.

  • Cardigans - cozy or fitted, crewneck or deep V, soft, loose and structured truly, “everything goes”

  • Faux fur and sparkles

  • Looser style trouser; from formalwear to chinos, the more comfortable the better.